Stilltide

Stilltide

You can't cut the tie, but you can calm the tide.

In development

Some parents have to keep talking to someone they dread hearing from, because they share a child. Stilltide is being built for them.

You get a phone number that belongs to you. Your co-parent texts that number instead of your personal one, and Stilltide handles what arrives.

What it does

  • Shows you a calm version of each message that keeps every fact and every request.
  • Surfaces anything urgent about your child right away. Everything else waits until you're ready.
  • Keeps the original message exactly as it was sent, so you can read it yourself and check any rewrite against it.
  • Lets you export your record whenever you want it.

What it won't do

Stilltide doesn't read the texts already on your phone, and it never scores, rates or profiles your co-parent. A calm version is always labelled as one; it never replaces the original. Nothing you write is sent anywhere until you approve it.

Stilltide is not a law firm and gives no legal advice. Whether any record helps you is a question for your attorney.

Not released yet

It's in active development, with no launch date to promise yet. If you'd want it when it's ready, say so and I'll email you once there's something to try.

Ask about early access